FREE 60-MINUTE LIVE WEBINAR · WITH NEIL KELDERS
What lived experience can teach us about hidden mental health struggles at home and at work
Someone can be struggling with their mental health and still go to work, see friends, make jokes, achieve things and tell you:
“I’m fine.”
Drawing on his own lived experience of depression and anxiety, Neil Kelders will explore what we can miss when someone appears to be coping, why people hide what they are really experiencing, and what helps someone feel safe enough to speak honestly.
Tuesday 27 October 2026
7:00 PM UK / 3:00 PM ET / 12:00 PM PT
Live on Zoom · 60 minutes
Neil Kelders · Author, Speaker & Mental Health Coach
WHAT WE DON’T SEE
The Invisible
Weight
“You can laugh, work, talk to people and still be struggling far more than anyone realises.”
Mental health struggles do not always look like crisis.
Someone can keep turning up. They can perform well, make plans, support other people and say all the right things.
And still be struggling privately.
That gap between what we see and what someone is actually experiencing is where things are often missed.
This webinar looks at that gap from the inside.
THE 60-MINUTE LIVE WEBINAR
What We’ll
Explore
A focused lived-experience session built around three questions: what we miss, why people stay silent, and what helps someone feel safe enough to speak.
What We Miss
How someone can appear to be coping while struggling internally, and why distress is not always obvious.
Why People Stay Silent
What can make someone hide how they are really feeling, even when support is available.
What Helps Someone Speak
The responses, questions and conditions that can make it easier for someone to be honest.
What We Can Do Differently
Practical lessons for parents, managers, colleagues and anyone supporting someone who may be struggling.
LIVED EXPERIENCE
What I Couldn’t Say Then
For years, I lived with depression and anxiety while appearing to function normally from the outside.
I went to work, saw people, made plans and said “I’m fine” while hiding what was really happening.
That experience now shapes how I speak about mental health.
Not from a clinical perspective, but from the inside: what people hide, why they stay silent, what others miss, and what can make it easier to finally speak honestly.
Neil Kelders
Author, Speaker & Mental Health Coach
FINAL INVITATION · FREE 60-MINUTE LIVE WEBINAR
Reserve Your Place
Behind “I’m Fine” is an honest, lived-experience-led webinar about hidden mental health struggles, why people stay silent, and what helps someone feel safe enough to speak.
If you are a manager, HR or People leader, parent, colleague or simply someone who wants to understand mental health differently, this session is designed to help you notice more, listen better and respond with greater confidence.
- Understand what hidden struggle can look like
- Explore why people may not tell us what is really happening
- Learn practical ways to respond without shutting the conversation down
Tuesday 27 October 2026 · 7:00 PM UK / 3:00 PM ET / 12:00 PM PT / 9:00 PM Cyprus
Live on Zoom · 60 minutes
BEHIND “I’M FINE”
A free lived-experience webinar exploring hidden mental health struggles, why people stay silent, and what helps someone feel safe enough to speak.
Neil Kelders · Author, Speaker & Mental Health Coach
This webinar is educational and based on lived experience. It is not a substitute for medical or mental health treatment. If you or someone else is in immediate danger or crisis, contact local emergency or crisis services.
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